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With Davis’s help I put together a list of the best ways to research someone you meet online (and the times you should lay off the digital stalking altogether.) Before a first date, the best. Online friendship sites, (like FriendMatch!) take a proven model for meeting new people, and apply it to friends instead of romance. Similar to dating sites and apps, you fill out a profile online first.

*Deletes Tinder*

Although we're pretty lucky to have access to hundreds of singles on all of these dating apps out there, it's important to take a break from online dating from time to time. Maybe you’ve been swiping right on singles in your area for a while now, but it’s not hitting the same as it used to. Maybe you’ve found that making small talk over text is exhausting, and exchanging Snapchat usernames isn’t the meet-cute you hoped it would be. If you’re tempted to delete your dating apps all together but aren’t sure how to meet men or women IRL, then it’s possible you’re just not looking in the right places.

Not everyone wants their “how we met” story to be a “we both swiped right” story, and it all starts with knowing where to go. While it’s much easier to chill in your room and respond to a text from your potential crush while simultaneously brushing your teeth, watching a show, or making dinner, meeting people outside of dating apps takes a little more effort. You’ll want to head out on a morning coffee run before work, go on a park outing with your mutual friends, and get involved in a community program. If you meet someone, then you’ll have something to connect on instantly — whether it be the drink you order, the snacks you like, or the reason why you’re volunteering your time. You’ll be able to see if your personalities click, if they have a good sense of humor, and if you’re attracted to them.

If you don’t meet someone, then focus on having the new experience, which only makes you a more interesting and worldly person. “Hunting for romance is guaranteed to be frustrating,” relationship expert and Allowing Magnificence authorSusan Winter tells Elite Daily. “Do what you love. Whether that's volleyball, swimming, walking your dog, or going to a museum — be in the moment and live the life you love (for yourself). That's the best formula to attract a partner without trying to do so.”

After being out and about, you may come to the realization that dating apps are your jam, and that’s totally fine, too. Just start by putting yourself out there at these 20 places to meet men or women, and see where the journey takes you.

Restaurant

It may seem a little clichéd, but a restaurant is an easy place to meet somebody. People who are dining out are usually in a social mood already, and they may just be open to the idea of meeting a person in between their appetizer and entrée being served.

The situation can go down one of three ways: You can send someone you’re interested in a drink with the help of their server, you can strike up a conversation with a person who’s table is very close to yours à la Emily in Paris, or you can write your number on your receipt if you think your waiter is cute AF. There’s no guarantee that you’ll leave the restaurant with love in tow, but some people may appreciate your confidence in the moment.

Coffee Shop Line

On a weekday morning, waiting in line at a coffee shop can be the worst, since you have places to be and people to see. But on a chill weekend morning, getting your go-to cold brew can be a lovely opportunity to meet someone. You’re both standing near the counter and likely looking for a way to pass time. What better way than to strike up a convo, and maybe exchange numbers if it goes well?

To get things started, you could compliment their outfit, ask them what they like to order, or say something witty like, “Hey, if I buy a brownie will you eat half?” Love is never guaranteed, but you’ll eventually get your drink nonetheless.

Volunteer Event

The universe may give back to you while you give back to your community. However, you have to sign up for a day delivering meals, cleaning up the park, or taking care of pets at your local animal shelter first. While you’re there, you may meet a single person who’s not only interested in you but is passionate about the same thing you are.

The perk of this type of meet-cute is that, right from the get-go, you’ll have something deep and meaningful to chat about. You’ll know they care about the world and helping it in any way possible. In this situation, you can keep the connection going by mentioning another event you’ll be at and asking if they’d like to join you.

Work-Friendly Café

Working remotely from a café? Don’t be afraid to chat with the person who set up their laptop nearby. While they may be super busy responding to emails and tackling work projects, they may also want to take a break and sip a smoothie with fellow hard worker.

You could talk about the tastiest items on the menu, what you do for work, or other places you like to work besides your home office. By the time you leave, you may have a new remote work buddy... or a new love interest to text once you’ve signed off for the day.

Dog Park

Don’t underestimate the matchmaking powers of the dog park. Not only is it a great place for your pup to socialize, it’s also a great place for you to meet other pet owners. When your dog runs up to a particularly cute human, you can use it as an opportunity to have a conversation with them, and say something like, “I think they like you!”

If things go well, you can propose a puppy playdate or another dog park meet-up. You can also tell them to follow your dog’s Instagram account.

Subway

Especially in a place like New York City, where everybody’s on a mission to get somewhere, you may not want to strike up a conversation on the subway. But if you do see a cutie at your station or sitting in the train car you hopped on, talk to them. Sit nearby and ask them about the book they’re reading or about the university on their sweatshirt.

It’s a race against time, since you’re not sure when they’re getting off. However, if it’s meant to be, you might be able to grab their number and see them again — this time in a non-public transportation setting.

Sporting Event

Have you ever watched Set It Up on Netflix? The two main characters set up their bosses at a Yankees game, and they end up dating for quite some time after they’re caught by the Kiss Cam. The interns also connect over foam fingers and home runs, proving that a sporting event can be a great place to meet someone.

The key is to walk into the stadium planning to have a good time, whether you meet someone or not. Then, when you get to your seat, take a casual look around to see who’s in the area. If you get up to order food, do the same when you’re waiting in line, and see if there’s anyone who you’d like to talk to about the latest play.

Gym

Imagine this: You’re stretching on the treadmill, and a cute person walks up to the one next to you. They start using the machine, while you move onto an ab workout on a mat nearby. By the time they finish their run, you’ve made eye contact and smiled a few times, and they’ve smiled back. What are you waiting for?

At that moment, introduce yourself. Don’t wait for them to walk into the locker room, never to be seen again. Ask if they’re going to school in the area, or if they’ve ever tried the classes the gym offers. Worst comes to worst, you’ve made a new gym friend that you can wave at from the top of the StairMaster.

Airport

There’s plenty of downtime at an airport, meaning there’s plenty of time to meet someone. If you get to your gate and see someone cute, be sure to set up shop nearby. If they don’t look busy, ask them about what they’re doing when they reach the destination, where the food court is, or if they travel often.

If you studied abroad in college, you can chat with them about your experiences and learn all about their bucket list, too. Who knows? You might even run into a “small world” situation, where they know a person you’ve traveled with in the past or a restaurant in Italy that you swore was off the beaten path.

Grocery Store

Standing in the cereal aisle doesn’t sound super romantic. But, if you come across a stir fry kit or box of pierogi that looks tasty in a potential crush’s cart, it can be a great talking point. You can ask them where they picked it up, and chat about the different recipes you like to make.

“Don't simply put on blinders as you go from point A to point B completing the errands of your day,” says Winter. You never know who’s around you, and might give you butterflies. It’s worth looking up, observing the people in your area, and approaching a person who’s giving you a good vibe.

Art Class

Art classes are pretty intimate, if you think about it. You’re recreating a photograph of a place you love on a canvas, or putting your mediocre painting skills out there in an attempt to get better. The person next to you is likely in the same boat and possibly even willing to talk about their work.

You can chat with them about what you’re painting or the art class you took in high school that may or may not have stuck with you. Art classes are usually about an hour long, so you have plenty of time to dive into topics like sports, food, and the DIY corner of TikTok, too.

Resort

If movies taught you anything, it’s that you can absolutely meet someone while on a vacation. You could be staying at a beach resort or a hotel in the city and run into someone in the lobby. There could be a cutie in your surfing lesson or snorkeling excursion.

Right away, you’ll have an experience to bond over which is a major perk. You can plan to meet up at the beach the next day, or a restaurant that’s known for their sushi. Taking things to the next level may be similar to Bachelor in Paradise, since you may live on different coasts or go to different schools. So, if your relationship really grows on vacation, be sure to have those tougher conversations about the “real world” before you head home.

Museum

Anyone who’s interested in art and history may want to head to a museum to find a potential love interest. While standing in front of a painting by Van Gogh, Monet, or Picasso, you may serendipitously start talking to a cutie sitting on the bench nearby. They may have thoughts on the piece and really stimulate you... intellectually, of course.

In a relationship, being intellectually stimulated by your partner can be really important. It can push you to grow and think differently about the world. Of course, the cutie on the bench may not be an academic, too. They may just have a sense of humor that you really appreciate, which is still a #win.

Music Festival

Going to a music festival and meeting someone is like sending a crush a playlist they really like: a dating game-changer. That’s because most people have an emotional connection to the music they listen to and are willing to belt out the lyrics with any other fan. You can have a moment with someone during your favorite artist’s set or bond with them back at a hotel if you’re staying in the same place.

Just be careful, friends. At the end of the day, you’re still meeting up with a stranger. Winter says to watch and observe before approaching your potential crush. “Your instincts may be sharper than online because you can see them IRL,” she says, “but remember, you still don't know them.”

Bowling League

As an adult, you can join all kinds of adult sport leagues and participate in them after work. There are leagues for baseball, kickball, and even bowling, and after a while, you and your team can get pretty close. You may find yourself crushing on a particular person that you didn’t even know before and chatting with them on the sidelines.

If you get closer, ask for their number or see if they want to grab a bite after your next match. At the very least, you know you’ll be able to talk strategy and about the mutual connections you have on your team.

Photography Meet-Up

Calling all photographers! This one's for you. Find a photography workshop, trip, or meet-up you can attend on social media. Plan to go with a creative BFF or by yourself if you’re feeling adventurous and comfortable with doing so. While you’re in your element, take a glance around the space to see if there’s anyone you’re interested in.

You can ask to be their model or vice versa, or you can ask them for shooting pointers. Start by following each other on Instagram and then work your way to texting... and maybe more.

Climate Change Rally

The purpose of a climate change rally is to, of course, fight for the future of the planet. But in the midst of pushing for better policies and making signs, you may be able to find someone you’re interested in. Together, you may be able to talk about the issue of climate change, the activists you look up to, and the other issues you care about.

Going forward, you could meet up to make more signs, ask for petition signatures, or plan the next rally. You could also inspire each other to stay involved and be each other’s rock in a way, especially when things feel like they’re too overwhelming to take on.

Driving Range

Feeling sporty? Head to the driving range to hit some balls and find yourself someone to fall in love with. While you’re setting up for the next swing, you may be able to give someone else pointers. They might just be a really interesting person to talk to or someone who’s energy matches yours.

Plus, if all goes well, you can invite them on a mini golfing date next in order to string the two “dates” together. Talk about a hole in one!

Sailing Lesson

As Winter says, finding someone can simply be about following your passions and doing what you love. This can include checking items off your bucket list, like learning how to sail. While you’re learning the different terms — and what to do if your boat “turtles” — you might feel a connection with your instructor or someone else in the class.

The key is to not push it. Be yourself, and see what happens when you try and strike up a convo when you’re back on the land.

Gathering With Mutual Friends

Your friends know what your type is, so they may be able to connect you with someone else when you’re all hanging out. They may be able to invite you and another cutie to a picnic in the park or an afternoon of video games. The pressure to keep a conversation going will be off, because you’re in the company of people you both know.

Still wondering, “Where are the single men near me?” While there are plenty of ways to meet men or women IRL if you just deleted your dating apps, these places are some of the best for the meet-cute of your dreams. Now get out there and go meet some cute singles!

Expert:

Susan Winter, relationship expert and author of Allowing Magnificence

Editor's Note: This story has been updated by Elite Daily Staff.

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You made it—you’ve just moved to a new city or town. It’s exciting and maybe a little intimidating at the same time. Aside from locating nearby shopping and healthcare providers, you’re probably wondering about the best ways to meet new friends!

Sound about right?

If you are looking for the best ways to meet new friends in a new city, first think about the hobbies and activities that are enjoyable for you.

It can be fun to get out of your comfort zone in a brand new activity. However, starting with one you already know and love will give you the confidence needed to start up a conversation with someone who shares that interest.

Make a quick list of the activities you are most comfortable with.

Need some good ideas first? Take a look at our list of fun ways to meet new friends in a new city, as well as ways to meet friends online.

The Best Ways to Meet New Friends in a New City

1. Volunteer in the community

When you have a passion for giving back, it is easy to find others who share that passion. Sharing a few hours of your time each month will benefit both your organization of choice and you.

Of all the great places to meet new friends, volunteering for a cause you care for ranks very high!

Find the perfect volunteer opportunity for you on VolunteerMatch.org by entering your city and your areas of interest.

Consider some of these worthy causes:

• Human rights and advocacy
• Children and youth
• Animal welfare
• Arts and culture
• Education and literacy
• Crisis support or disaster relief

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2. Join an amateur sports team

Whether you are highly athletic or just enjoy having fun, there is a sports league for you. From competitive softball to flag football, to “just for fun” dodgeball leagues, sports leagues create great ways to meet new friends in new cities.

Find a league in your area with sites like ZogSports or Sportsvite.

3. Join a gym and try an exercise class

Joining a gym is a great way to stay fit and get social. Add an extra layer of social to your membership by taking one or more of the offered exercise classes.

You may find something you really enjoy, and a new workout partner could become a friend outside the gym as well.

Pump up your chances of making strong bonds (and muscles) by joining a specific kind of gym like:

• CrossFit,
• or OrangeTheory.

4. Join a dance class

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Contrary to popular belief, you don’t need to be an experienced dancer to join a class later in life! If you enjoy great music and staying active, dance classes provide one of the best ways to meet new friends.

Pick a genre you enjoy and then consider practicing outside of the classroom in social settings like clubs or bars.

You can try dancing without breaking the bank; search for dance lessons on Groupon to get a great deal.

5. Run a local road race

Every runner will tell you that road races are fun, communal events. Races and running clubs offer fun ways to meet new friends, see your town from a new perspective, and break a sweat.

Experienced runners and novices alike can enjoy the benefits of getting involved in the runner community (don’t worry, it’s not an elite club!).

Use an app like Nike Run Club to link up with, compete against and/or cheer on other runners in your area.

6. Join your local Chamber of Commerce or a Professional Networking Group

If you own your own business, joining the Chamber of Commerce is a highly effective way to meet new people and build a network of referrals.

People who start off as network acquaintances can turn into lifelong friends.

The passion shared by business owners and dedicated professionals is contagious. If you don’t own your own business but take great pride in your profession and want to meet new friends who share that drive, networking events are the number one way to do it.

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7. Join a religious group or cultural club

Certainly one of the best ways to meet new friends is through a shared love of religion or culture. Becoming active in a local church, synagogue or mosque will ensure that you engage with a community of like-minded people who will support you.

If religion isn’t for you, but you have strong ties to your culture, consider seeking out the local club or chapter that represents your culture in your city.

8. Join a wine club

If you enjoy a nice glass of wine and good conversation, it won’t be hard to make new friends in a wine club.

Many cities have wine clubs that tour the local wine bars and wineries (where applicable). Learn more about wine and make friends on the journey!

9. Join a book club

Not only are book clubs one of the best ways to meet new friends, reading is widely known to be excellent for the brain and overall emotional health.

Unwind with a new book each month and join a club where you can find new friends and enjoy a discussion. Finding the right book club is easy with websites like My Book Club and Reader’s Circle.

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10. Join a sports team fan club

Do you love your team? You aren’t alone! It doesn’t matter where your team is from or what sport they play, chances are there are others in your city who also love them.

Joining a fan club is one of the great ways to meet friends online! If you are up for cheering on games together, you can probably find a local bar dedicated just to your team!

The easiest way to find these clubs is through your team’s official website. Be sure to grab your favorite team’s hat or jersey from Fanatics.com.

11. Take your dog to the park

A shared love of pets is an instant conversation-starter. If you love dogs and the outdoors, taking your dog to the dog park is definitely one of the best ways to meet new friends.

No dog parks nearby? If meeting people in a new city is on your to-do-list, walk your dog in a popular place like downtown to run into potential new friends.

12. Go to the beach or lake

Relax and soak up the sun with a great book on the sand, or join a pick-up volleyball game. Spending time at the beach or lake is a fun activity by yourself, but it creates lots of opportunities to meet new friends.

Consider taking a water-based class like paddleboarding or snorkeling and use these activities to meet friends.

13. Join local Facebook Groups

One of the best ways to meet friends online is to join Facebook Groups. Use the search bar at the top of the home page and select “groups” to narrow down results to your liking.

Try using your city’s name as part of the search to see local results.

Are you a traveling health professional? Check out our Inspired Traveler Facebook Group to gain access to a community of like-minded friends.

14. Go to bars with events like Trivia Night

If you enjoy a competitive round of trivia, consider making new friends by joining a team at a local bar or brewery.

Most players will join these events with a full team. For those without a group, the trivia managers can place you with a team of people who are new to the game like you.

Need ideas for a creative or funny team name? Browse through suggestions here.

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15. Visit a museum, zoo, aquarium or national park

Spending time at one of these public places can be a great way to enjoy the day and meet new friends who share your interests.

Many cities offer a variety of museums featuring collections of all kinds. If you are more inclined to spend the day with animals, many zoos and aquariums offer walking tours or wildlife classes.

There are 58 national parks in the U.S. If you happen to be in the area of one or more, consider purchasing an “America the Beautiful Pass”. It will give you access to over 2,000 federal recreation sites. Each pass covers entrance fees at national parks and national wildlife refuges as well as day use fees at national forests and grasslands.

16. Go to a local music, food or art festival

Attending festivals is one of the best ways to meet new friends. Festivals are very communal, centered around having fun, and often include group activities like games, competitions, and demonstrations.

Your local city or town newspaper’s website may have a calendar of events to peruse.

17. Take a foreign language class

Learning a new language is a fantastic way to continue your education and open yourself up to a new culture. Learning in a group setting makes it easy to form new connections, but it can also be a great way to meet friends online.

You can always use the popular online language system Rosetta Stone, which offers access to groups and “co-ops” where you practice with others.

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18. Shop at local businesses

Local business owners are eager to meet and serve their community.

Spending time in the local boutiques and restaurants in your town ensures that you can build relationships with the hard-working people who own the shops.

Patronizing these businesses also create opportunities to meet other members of the community who “shop local” and could become shopping buddies.

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19. Go to a farmer’s market

Many towns offer monthly farmer’s markets full of great produce and local products. Like shopping locally, farmer’s markets create a fun way to support your community and surround yourself with neighbors who are interested in doing the same.

If you enjoy healthy living, farmer’s markets are one of the best ways to meet new friends in a new city, because of the diverse group of people who attend.

20. Take a local brewery tour

Craft beer has exploded onto the scene in recent years and almost every town has at least one local brewery. In addition to great beer, these breweries often offer tours and classes making them a great place to meet new people and have fun.

Cities with large collections of breweries even see new tours popping up like Brew Bus, a bus tour that takes you to multiple breweries over the span of a day.

21. Join MeetUp.com

Perhaps one of the very best ways to meet new friends is to join MeetUp.com. This online forum allows you to enter your city and interest to view endless numbers of “meetups” near you.

If you’re interested in doing some of the activities above, but want to make a friend to take first, consider using MeetUp.com to build a group of friends to do activities together.

Conclusion

Adjusting to a new city can be difficult, but always remember that you’re not alone! If you’re wondering, “How do I meet new friends?”, try some of the ideas in this article.

Be confident, be yourself, and be open to new social connections. Before you know it, you’ll feel settled in and establish genuine friendships with like-minded individuals.

➡ Do you have any other tips for fun ways to meet new friends in a new city?

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