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Although dating apps allow you to swipe from the comfort of your own home, striking up a conversation with a new cutie means stepping out of your comfort zone. No matter how confident you are, it’s not always easy to nail the perfect first message. So, knowing a couple of funny dating app conversation starters can be a great way to break the ice — and melt the tension.

Claudia Cox, relationship coach and founder of Text Weapon, says that opening with a compliment can sometimes come off as superficial. “Even if they are drop-dead gorgeous, go deeper,” Cox tells Bustle. “Start a conversation based on things that you are both interested in. Begin with a common topic and then transition into other things.”

Jan 08, 2020 So in the interest of putting your best foot (or DM) forward, dating experts have thoughts on crafting good opening lines to use on dating apps in order to stand out in the best way. What's a better line: 'How you doin' ' or 'How you doin'?' The dating app Hinge (it's like Tinder but based more on your Facebook friend group) did some experimenting to find out what kinds of opening messages work best once you've been matched with someone.

If your new match has a picture of them at your favorite brewery or their dog looks just like yours, making that connection can be the perfect way to start a conversation. And if you’re trying to make them smile (and want to show off how witty you are,) shooting off a funny opening line may make the sparks really start to fly.

Here are 60 silly lines to break the ice on a dating app.

App-centric Openers

1. I know that everyone talks about this on dating apps, but if loving “The Office' is wrong, then I don’t want to be Dwight.

2. So, come here often?

3. You know, I've been waiting for you to message me, but I guess I'll take one for the team.

4. Do you believe in love at first swipe, or should we unmatch and then match again?

5. Obviously, we'd meet on an app — because you're a total snack.

6. Does swiping through this dating app count as 'exercise'?

7. Do you need me to call the fire department? I met your phone is full of matches.

8. Who's the person in your first photo? My grandmother was asking.

9. That dog looks so cute, can you give them my number?

10. We can say we met on Spotify because you're the hottest new single.

11. Glad we matched when we did, my thumb was getting tired!

12. Two wrongs don't make right, but two rights make a perfect match.

13. Some people think with their hearts, some with their heads, but I'm glad we both think with our thumbs.

14. Hmm, I think your first message to me must have gotten lost in cyberspace... It's OK. I'll send you one.

15. If you had to describe my profile in three words, what would you choose? And why would they be iconic, perfect, and flawless?

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16. Why do bartenders use blenders? To break the ice.

17. Going to Trader Joe’s, do you need anything?

18. Are you more afraid of spiders or saying, “You too!” when a server says, “Enjoy!”?

19. So, do you have any good pickup lines?

20. People always say they want to be the person their pet thinks they are, but my pet knows that all I do is watch bad TV in my pajamas and eat cereal for every meal.

21. My mom just asked me what “WAP” meant… any advice on how to navigate that conversation?

22. Using only emojis, can you explain to me your first time paying taxes?

23. What’s your least favorite pasta shape?

24. If your mom were a shoe, what kind of shoe would she be?

25. If Napoleon Dynamite and Joe Exotic started a band, what would it be called? Liger King.

26. What kind of kitchen appliance you? Don't say blender. Everybody says blender.

27. Should I start this conversation with a bad pickup line or by just saying hello?

28. Do you also still think about all the embarrassing things you said in middle school, or are you a well-adjusted adult?

29. Big. Gigantic. Enormous. Huge... I never liked small talk.

30. If you wrote a memoir, what would the title be? Mine would be 'Overthinking Opening Messages.'

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31. Where did the f*ckboy go to college? U Up.

32. I don't want to flood your inbox, but dam — you look good.

33. I don't like dried fruits, but I’d meet you for a date.

34. I’d love to grab margs sometime and taco ‘bout our feelings.

35. Are you a library book? Because I’d like to check you out.

36. Are you a barista? Because I like you a latte.

37. So hoppy you matched me back, I couldn't wheat to talk to you.

38. Hopefully, this app will lead to a great meal.

39. What do you call a row of trucks? A pickup line.

40. Are you familiar with the work of Claude Monet? Because you make quite the impression.

41. I'm trying to think of a Postmates pickup line, but I need some help with the delivery.

42. They must call you Earl Grey because you're such a hot tea.

43. I know it's cheesy, but matching with you is too Gouda to be true.

44. Trying to think of a fruit or vegetable joke, but I can't produce much under pressure.

45. Water you doing later? Want to get drinks?

Straight Forward

46. I think you're super cute and funny. That's it. That's the tweet.

47. 'Broad City'! (I've been thinking of something funny to say for an hour.)

48. Hooking up is cool, but have you ever matched with someone on a dating app and had them send a really good first message?

49. I always remember my reusable bags at the supermarket, which has to merit a response.

50. What's a nice person like you doing in a place like this?

51. Let's cut to the chase, do you share food on a first date?

52. You didn't 'Super Like' me, but it's OK, I'll take your number as an apology.

53. I'm not great at starting conversations, do you want to try?

54. How about I'll start this conversation, and you can start the next one?

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55. Is our anniversary when we first matched or when we first messaged?

56. Aww, you're so considerate to let me start this conversation.

57. What's down? (It's 'What's up?' cooler cousin.)

58. How are we doing tonight? Have you dined with us before? Let me know if you have any questions about the menu.

59. Gosh! Stop messaging me! You're blowing up my inbox!

60. Do you normally go for people that are super good looking or super funny? Don't worry. I'm both.

Trying to find the love of your life and live happily ever after aren't really laughing matters. But we can all agree that sometimes in life you just have to laugh at yourself, and for me, that absolutely applies to dating. Approaching your romantic adventures with a dash of humor might just be the way to find love, so you'd be wise to have a few funny opening lines to send on dating apps at the ready. Starting a conversation with a joke or a witty line not only sets the tone for fun banter, but it might also help you stand out from the crowd.

It can be tempting to overthink the first message you want to send to a match, and you might find yourself either staring blankly at your phone or typing and then deleting a version of 'what's up?' over and over and over. It's tough to cram all your charm, personality, and attitude into one message, but your sense of humor is a massive part of who you are. Communicating your comic sensibility to your match will tell them a lot about you and also let them know that you're approaching dating apps with a grain of salt. You certainly don't have to be a comedian to score a date on an app, don't sorry. There's also a chance this person might not respond at all, so you might as well amuse yourself!

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Why not start this entire interaction out with a little self-deprecation? Come on, it's healthy!

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• 'I'm sugar (Stevia actually), spice (dash of social anxiety), and everything nice (but I will throw down if necessary.) Wanna party?'
• 'I like long walks along the beach... and by beach I mean from my couch to my fridge.'
• 'I still use my ex's Hulu log-in, and yes, I will gladly share it with you.'

It's always nice to ask people how they are... now take it a step further and get weird with it!

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• 'In your opinion, how many cats is too many cats? You know, for when we live together?'
• 'Do you like being the smartest person in the room? If so, we can totally have phone sex.'
• 'What was your last dream about and how did I look?'

Who doesn't love a totally strange message from a stranger about something completely random?

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• 'If you had to live a TV show, would you choose Riverdale or The Bachelor and why?'
• 'I've listened to Ariana Grande's new song 17 times today. Thoughts?'
• 'Hey, I haven't read the news since 2015 but I probably didn't really miss anything, did I?'

Clearly standing out from the crowd isn't going to be a problem if you start a conversation with a dash of humor ranging from witty to bizarre. Since you're so wonderful and unique, go ahead and get creative with introducing yourself to someone! Listen. I'm not guaranteeing you a perfect date, a flawless relationship, and your elusive happily ever after if you send these messages to a match on a dating app. But! Should it happen, feel free to send me a bottle of wine. Happy texting!

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